Anonymous asked: Hey would you have any tips on how to make a girl orgasm? I struggle a lot and was wondering how you make your girl do it 😳 love the blog btw ☺️
1. Start the foreplay many hours before the actual sex: Say sexy things, give them the look like you’re undressing them with your eyes, stroke their arm delicately.
2. Be appealing: make them dinner, do the dishes.
3. Take it slow, alternatively, take it fast and passionately: depends on the mood, you can be romantic or super lusty about it.
4. Focus on giving pleasure: oral, fingers/hands, sucking, biting, kissing everywhere. Don’t fixate if it isn’t working, try something else.
5. Bring them to the brink of orgasm before having penetrative sex: or if they are female, you may make them cum at least once during foreplay.
That should work fairly well. If they don’t cum from penetrative sex, you can add other stimulation such as stroking the clit or using a vibrator. Again, don’t fixate on what doesn’t work, you can always go back to oral and “foreplay.”
Too many people think of penetrative sex as the main event and foreplay is relegated to the “fore…” Alternate between techniques, draw it out, see what works.